What to Talk About on a First Date
Two people sit down, exchange job titles, compare commutes, and forty minutes later say we should do this again in the tone of colleagues ending a…
Green Flags: The Signs Everyone Overlooks
Dating advice has become a catalogue of exits: red flags, ick lists, reasons to leave. Almost nobody teaches the opposite skill, recognising the…
What Are the Attachment Styles? Anxious, Avoidant, Secure and Disorganised
Attachment theory explains a pattern most of us cannot see from inside it: how we reach for closeness, or back away from it, once a relationship gets…
What Is a Situationship, and How Do You Get Out of the Fog?
A situationship is a romantic or sexual connection with the intimacy of a relationship and none of the commitment or labels. You act like a couple,…
Why Do I Keep Getting Ghosted? The Real Reasons, and What You Can Change
If you keep getting ghosted, the first thing to know is that the silence is rarely a verdict on you. Ghosting is now the default exit of app dating:…
Why Dating Apps Feel Broken (and What to Do Instead)
Dating apps feel broken because they are not built to get you off them. They are built for engagement: infinite choice that makes everyone…